Death is the only constant in life!

After struggling for almost 2 months my mother in law who was just 57 expired on 4 Jan 2008।Her death has left us numb and we are left with lots and lots of ifs and buts !She was a diabetic patient and lived life full on.Born beautiful she had a royal life as an army officer's wife.She proved to be good mother,good sister,good wife , good grandmother and to me she was a great friend!We all know that death is the only constant in our lives but still when it strikes us we are left dumbstruck!Seeing mummyji's(as I called my mother in law) life, I wish she has taken more care of her life or probably we could have guided her better!If she had lived for another 15 years more the blow wud hav been less! But as I say nothing works according to us!She had the best hospital ,best doctors and all her near and dear ones by her side still we cud not save her!She suffered from diabeties but cause of her death was cardiac arrest! Probably she was not strong enough to withstand the strong medicenes and treatment.Her demise has left a huge void which can never be filled.A small family with just 2 sons and 2 daughter in laws along with 2 grandsons she was a source of inspiration for everyone!Time might lessen the pain we feel but noways the void wud be filled.The lessons I hav learned from her life is that it is very important to take care of your life along with others specially our health. Health is the most important thing in your life!Even if you are the richest person on ths earth and you are not healthy---how wud you enjoy that wealth?
We all know exercising is a must everyday ---do we take out time for it?We also know having nutritious food is healthy but we still relish fried stuff,fast food--etc.Being happy is important---we still keep cribbing!Now we all know the ingredients to lead a healthy balanced and happy life then why are we still always unhappy!